Dear Parent/Guardian,

It is with deep sadness that I inform you that the school has experienced the sudden death of Craig Rodrigues, one of our 3rd year students. Craig sadly passed away yesterday evening in the care of the hospital medical staff in CUH having fallen ill in school. We are deeply saddened by his passing, and our thoughts are with the Rodrigues family at this time.

We have support structures in place to help your child cope with this tragedy. These include full access to our student support team consisting of Guidance Counsellors, Chaplain, Year Heads, Learning Support staff, teachers, SNA’s and Management. NEPS (National Educational Psychological Service) are present in the school and are guiding the team with their work.

It is possible that your child may have some feelings and questions she/he may like to discuss with you. It is important to give factual information that is age appropriate.

You can help your child by taking time to listen and by encouraging him/her to express feelings. All children are different and will express their feelings in different ways. It is not uncommon for children to have difficulties concentrating or be fearful, anxious, or irritable. They may become withdrawn, cry, complain of physical aches and pains, have difficulty sleeping or have nightmares. Some may not want to eat. These are generally short-term reactions. Over the course of the coming days, please keep an eye on your child and allow him/her to express their feelings without criticism.

Please also click on the buttons below for two information leaflets on how best to support your son/daughter at this time.

Although classes will continue as usual, I anticipate that the next few days will be difficult for everyone.

Most of all we need to respect the privacy of the Rodrigues family at this time. Young people frequently turn to social media to see what others are saying, or to find out more. At these times it is important that you monitor their use and engage with them about what they read. We urge you to emphasise and reinforce the need to be extremely sensitive and careful about what they post. If you would like further advice please contact the school office who will endeavour to direct you to an appropriate staff member. Please be patient with us at this very difficult and sad time for our school community.

Anton O Mahony Principal,

Skibbereen Community School

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